A New Chapter in Buffalo

Written by: Nana Nyarko Mensah

My name is Nana Nyarko Mensah, and to say I love traveling would be an understatement. Over the last few years, I’ve ventured through eleven countries across four continents, sampling cultures in short and long stays. My journey brought me everywhere from Europe’s grand cities to Africa’s bustling metropolises, but my longest stay—and the one closest to my heart—was in Singapore. Ten wonderful years in a country that became my second home!

Yet as life would have it, my next destination turned out to be the United States of America—Buffalo, New York, to be precise. I came here to pursue a Master’s in Management Information Systems at the University at Buffalo. The decision was fueled by my desire to gain an American education and to immerse myself in a culture I’d only seen in movies or read about in books. But it wasn’t just about the degree; it was also about experiencing a completely different way of life.

Leaving Singapore: A Bitter-Sweet Departure

I built a solid foundation for myself in Singapore. The clean streets, the efficient transport system, and the tantalizing hawker centers were all part of a daily routine I cherished. Culturally, Singapore is largely influenced by its Asian roots, with a strong sense of respect and community. Over time, I found myself growing more reserved in public because that was the norm. People spoke softly and maintained decorum in most situations. When I first arrived there, the difference from my African upbringing was noticeable, but soon, I adapted. The local dialects, politeness, and communal spirit resonated with me and became part of my life.

Leaving Singapore was bitter-sweet. I was excited for the new chapter in the United States but sad to part with the country I had called home for a decade. As I hugged friends goodbye and took one last stroll around my favorite hawker center, I felt a swell of gratitude for the experiences I had collected. I knew I’d miss the tropical climate, the vibrant cultural festivals like Chinese New Year and Deepavali, and the incredible food scene that offered everything from chili crab to nasi lemak.

First Impressions of Buffalo

Landing in Buffalo felt like stepping into a whole new world. Situated near the Canadian border, the city greets newcomers with its cold winds and snowy winters—something completely foreign to someone accustomed to Singapore’s tropical heat. I arrived right at the start of winter, and seeing piles of snow everywhere was both astonishing and intimidating. It was the kind of white, picturesque backdrop you usually only see in holiday movies.

Despite the chilly weather, Buffalo has a warm, close-knit community spirit. People often greet strangers with a friendly smile, and there’s a neighborly vibe that makes you feel welcome. The University at Buffalo campus, buzzing with students from various walks of life, offers an environment full of curiosity and academic rigor. I started my Master’s program in Management Information Systems here—an opportunity to refine my tech skills and push boundaries in an ever-evolving digital world.

Culture Shock: Loud, Proud, and Free

In Singapore, I had grown accustomed to a more understated social environment. Conversations were polite, people minded their own business, and the general atmosphere leaned toward the reserved side. On campus in the U.S., I quickly discovered that many people are unapologetically loud, outspoken, and ready to share their opinions—even in the middle of a crowded library.

Swear words, for instance, are common in everyday conversations, even in some professional or academic settings. Initially, it was startling. I would wonder if someone was upset or if I had offended them. I soon realized it was simply part of how people here express themselves—direct, blunt, and unfiltered. It’s what many call the essence of freedom in the United States.

Another noticeable difference is the directness in communication. Professors encourage students to challenge ideas openly, to voice disagreements, and to defend their viewpoints. While in Singapore, deference to authority and politeness might keep one from openly criticizing or debating, here in Buffalo, speaking your mind is not only welcomed but often expected.

Finding a Community in Buffalo

One of the best decisions I made soon after arriving was joining a local church in Buffalo that has a significant Ghanaian and West African community. Attending services and fellowship gatherings with fellow Ghanaians gives me a comforting sense of home. We share stories of our experiences, cook and enjoy traditional dishes, and celebrate Ghanaian holidays together. It’s a wonderful reminder of my roots and helps me navigate the challenges of living in a new country.

Beyond spiritual support, the community has been a vital source of practical guidance—everything from finding authentic African grocery stores to getting tips on winter survival. Sharing in a culture that feels like “home away from home” has been an incredible way to stay connected to my heritage while I forge a new path in the U.S.

Life on Campus: Dean’s Ambassador and Helping Others

Outside of my personal life, I’ve found another fulfilling role: being a Dean’s Ambassador at the University at Buffalo. This position allows me to represent the school at various events, connect with faculty and potential students, and voice student concerns to administration. More importantly, it’s an opportunity to give back by helping other international students—especially those who are considering or just arriving at UB.

I still remember the confusion and countless questions I had when I first arrived: Where to live, how to handle immigration paperwork, which classes to enroll in, and how to navigate the transport system in winter. Now, as a Dean’s Ambassador, I actively assist newcomers with these same queries, ensuring their transition is smoother than mine was. Whether it’s sharing tips on dealing with culture shock or recommending places to eat on campus, I’m thrilled to be a resource for others starting their own Buffalo journey.

Embracing the American Experience

Pursuing an American education isn’t just about classrooms and textbooks; it’s also about life experiences—volunteering for community events, cheering at college football games, exploring the grandeur of nearby Niagara Falls, and celebrating uniquely American holidays like Thanksgiving and the Fourth of July. I’ve grown to appreciate Buffalo’s sports culture, from the passionate Buffalo Bills fans to the fervent Sabres hockey crowd.

Outside of school, Buffalo’s charming neighborhoods feature classic diners, cozy coffee shops, and scenic parks perfect for summer barbecues. The city’s rich history is reflected in its architecture—art-deco buildings downtown and a revitalized waterfront that hosts events year-round. Each step of learning to navigate the city, its public transit, and its social norms has been an adventure on its own.

Reflecting on the Journey So Far

In many ways, moving to Buffalo represents a blend of anticipation and nostalgia. Singapore will always hold a special place in my heart—its unique mix of Chinese, Malay, Indian, and Western influences taught me about adaptability and respect for diverse traditions. But the United States, particularly Buffalo, offers a new lens on the world: one that values vocal expression, innovation, and independence.

Both places have shaped my worldview in profound ways. My ten years in Singapore taught me the grace of humility and the beauty of quiet strength. My time in Buffalo, meanwhile, is teaching me the power of speaking up, being bold, and embracing the dynamism of change. As an African who has lived in Asia for a decade and is now making a home in the U.S., my identity continues to evolve with each new cultural experience.

I look forward to completing my MIS program and seeing where this path will lead next. Will I remain in America, return to Singapore, or explore another country? The beauty of life, I’ve learned, lies in its unpredictability. The one constant is the thrill of new horizons—and I can’t wait to explore them all.

Bio: Nana Nyarko Mensah is a data-driven Project Manager with over three years of experience leading technology projects in Singapore. Currently pursuing a Master’s in Management Information Systems at the University at Buffalo, he specializes in Data Analysis, Project, and Product Management. With a background in Biomedical Engineering and Chemistry, he is passionate about leveraging technology to drive innovation. When he is not busy, he loves to travel, play the piano and sing.